Bully: lives lost as parents, advocates campaign for change

Lee Hirsch’s Bully speaks out for the 13 million children who are bullied each year. It raises awareness and challenges the “kids will be kids” attitude.

Why are kids bullied? Why do we allow it? The film is personal for Hirsch, who was bullied in childhood. His documentary doesn’t let you look away.

Bully is now playing nationwide.

Tragedies and solutions

Two victims who committed suicide are profiled. Tyler Long, 17, and Ty Smalley, 11, were harassed for years. There was no warning before they took their own lives, their families say.

Three other children are shown dealing with bullying. Solutions are suggested, including changing our own hearts.

Anatomy of bullying

Bullying can be verbal, social, physical, or in cyberspace. The victims of bullying are often different in some way. At times, there are no apparent reasons that someone is targeted.

Hirsch becomes a “fly on the wall” at one Sioux City school, filming during the 2009 – 2010 school year. Students filmed did not know the subject of the documentary.

The Sioux City Community School Board agreed to the filming of Bully. The Sioux City School District pursues violence prevention in conjunction with the Waitt Institute for Violence Prevention.

During filming, administrators appear to be clueless and unwilling to take decisive action. Most bullies interviewed in the principal’s office deny wrongdoing.

Rays of light

Alex is a sweet-natured 12-year-old. With Hirsch filming aboard a school bus, students threaten, punch and choke Alex. An older boy threatens to kill him. The filmmaker shares this footage with the school, Alex’s parents, and the Sioux City Police Department. His parents meet repeatedly with school administrators.

Kelby, age 16, is a lesbian. She has received verbal abuse from students and teachers. She was forced off two sports teams where she excelled. She was once hit by a van full of boys.

Ja’Meya, a quiet girl of 14, is repeatedly taunted on the school bus. One day she brings her mother’s gun and points it at tormentors. Ja’Meya is incarcerated at a juvenile detention center.

Spiritual and sacred activism

Bullying is one of many examples of the victim – tyrant polarity in the world. Some spiritual solutions you might try are polarity processing as outlined in The Marriage of Spirit, or studying forgiveness as taught in A Course in Miracles.

Assistance and action steps for students, parents, educators and advocates are listed at the film’s website. A model anti-bullying statute for states is listed.

Adults are bullied as well. That’s a worthwhile subject for future films. The Healthy Workplace Bill has been proposed. Action steps to address workplace bullying are offered.

Rays of hope

Kirk Smalley begins a Facebook page I Stand for the Silent, and appears at a rally. Many youths and adults attend.

We can change our hearts. Trey, a self-confessed former bully who was best friends with Ty Smalley, says, “I decided to be cool with everyone.” (4.5 out of 5 stars)

If you like Bully, you might enjoy:  Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close.

 

Bully  /   2011  /  PG-13  /  1 hour, 38 min

Cast Overview:   Alex, Ja’Meya, Kelby, David and Tina Long, Kirk and Laura Smalley

Director:  Lee Hirsch

Genres:  Documentary

Top Film of 2011: Thrive follows the money

 

Thrive is the boldest, most deeply transformative film of 2011. It’s now streaming and on DVD.

Everyone can Thrive, according to this leading edge documentary from visionary Foster Gamble. Steve Gagne directs. A wake-up call with a plan, Thrive casts world crisis as an evolutionary turning point.

Daring to follow the money, Gamble and his wife Kimberly Carter Gamble analyze underlying causes of scarcity and suffering worldwide. Free energy, abundant food and prosperity for all are within reach, experts say.

The Thrive Movement website includes detailed information and ways to participate. Among those interviewed are Nassim Haramein, cosmologist and inventor, and Paul Hawken, environmentalist and entrepreneur. A masterpiece of impeccable research and heart, Thrive is among the most important documentaries ever made.

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See Moviespirit’s Top 25 Films that Change Us 2011.

Top 25 Films that Change Us 2011 reflect a new world

Moviespirit presents the Top 25 Films that Change Us 2011. Each one can open your heart and change your mind in unique, subtle ways.

Films represent a powerful medium for learning about yourself and others. Most of us have access to great movies, making them a very democratic art form, a “dance of light” for our time. Found within are compassion, authenticity and integrity. High quality and technical excellence are demonstrated.

Families, nature and culture

Cave of Forgotten Dreams. New wave German filmmaker Werner Herzog reveals a protocinema of Paleolithic drawings in this unprecedented filming of Chauvet Cave in southern France. Herzog believes that the ancients held their torches aloft and danced, their shadows moving with the animal drawings in an ancient cinema. Here Earth’s earliest known drawings, about 32,000 years old, were discovered in 1994. Cinematographer Peter Zeitlinger’s exquisite 3-D images show horses gallop, and now-extinct cave bears and cave lions stalk. Woolly mammoths and spotted panthers prowl undulating walls glittering with calcite. Herzog’s offbeat narration and signature metaphysical musings keep the film lively.

The Tree of Life. When her son dies at war, Mrs. O’Brien (Jessica Chastain) asks why. Director Terrence Malick answers with a return to the beginning of time. Galaxies and the Earth form. A couple meets. A child is born. Hundreds of beautifully composed images shape a quiet, elegant whole. Upheavals take on a stately grace. Sparse dialogue and interior monologues become poetry. Brad Pitt impresses as strict, troubled Mr. O’Brien. Jack is played as a youth by Hunter McCracken, and later by Sean Penn.

The Descendants. George Clooney stars as Matt King, a real estate lawyer in Hawaii whose wife Liz lies in a coma after a waterskiing accident. Matt must transform his own pain and sorrow as he guides his daughters through impending loss. Shailene Woodley plays rebellious Alex. Amara Miller stars as tender Scottie. The family learns to live more from the heart and less from the mind in Alexander Payne’s sensitive drama about honor and letting go.

The Way. Martin Sheen and Emilio Estevez travel the Way of St. James (Camino de Santiago) from France to Spain in this sensitive drama about men’s hearts. Sheen’s son Estevez directs and appears as a ghostly muse. The most powerful movie is sometimes the simplest. Sheen’s deep, rousing performance and Estevez’s minimalist, mood-centered direction fill The Way with meaning. Cinematographer Juanmi Azpiroz captures inner and outer adventures along the breathtaking pilgrimage route. Tom Avery (Sheen) loses his son Daniel (Estevez) in a freak accident in the Pyrenees. He begins to retrace Daniel’s steps, intending to complete the journey. Deborah Kara Unger, Yorick van Wageningen and James Nesbitt also star.

Tough love

Everything Must Go. Nick Halsey (Will Ferrell) is having a very bad day. He’s been fired. His wife dumps him.  He’s marooned on his own front yard. Nick is forced to face his alcoholism and take stock of his life in this deadpan comedy. A smart, enterprising neighborhood kid who lost his dad shows up. Kenny (Christopher Jordan Wallace) cares about his neighbor, and helps Nick care about others again. Nick and Kenny help each other rise above despair. Laura Dern also appears. Dan Rush writes and directs.

Moneyball tells the true story of sports rebel and Oakland Athletics general manager Billy Beane. Brad Pitt brings Beane to life in this exciting drama about professional baseball, valuing others and bold change. Fast-talking Beane uses saber metrics to recruit a winning team on a tiny budget. The fantastic script was penned by Oscar winners Steven Zaillian (Schindler’s List) and Aaron Sorkin (The Social Network). Jonah Hill co-stars as economics whiz kid Peter Brand. After 11 losses, the team sets a major league record during the 2002 season. Actual game footage from the A’s 20-game win streak adds excitement. Bennett Miller (Capote, Doubt) directs.

Terri. John C. Reilly and Jacob Wysocki give standout performances in the best coming-of-age dramedy of the year. Azazel Jacobs directs. Mr. Fitzgerald (Reilly), a vice principal, begins to counsel Terri, a huge oddball with a confused, hungry heart. Reilly’s straightforward, unforgettable character walks his talk. Mr. Fitzgerald doesn’t pretend to have it all together, but helping troubled kids is his life calling. Jacobs captures strange beauty as Terri hangs out with two outcast friends. Creed Bratton also stars.

 

 

Truth and romance

Another Earth. What if we could start over, erase our most painful mistakes and move forward? Brit Marling stars in this moving indie. Rhoda Williams (Marling) has just won a scholarship to MIT’s astrophysics program. Partying herself into a stupor, she decides to drive home. Another Earth blends science fiction, art and emotional truth. It’s stark and understated, a contemplation of regret and human possibility. William Mapother and Marling are remarkable alone and together. The characters don’t interact so much as they revolve around each other. There’s a sense of vast eternity, a lonely hum. Director Mike Cahill co-wrote the mesmerizing, imaginative script with Marling, drawing upon the theoretical physics of parallel worlds. Cahill’s feature debut won the Alfred P. Sloan Feature Film Prize and a Special Jury Prize at Sundance 2011.

Beginners. He may be late for the party, but Hal celebrates like it’s 1955. Christopher Plummer’s Golden Globe winning performance reveals a man who married for love while hiding his sexual orientation. After his wife dies, Hal comes out to his adult son Oliver (Ewan McGregor), a romantic idealist. Parallel love stories unfold. Melanie Laurent stars as Oliver’s new sweetheart Anna. Goran Visnjic plays Hal’s lover Andy. Beginners is masterfully directed and written by Mike Mills, whose own father came out late in life. Art and whimsy add delight. Oliver sketches the many faces of sadness as he converses with his dog Arthur. McGregor brings a sensitive, vulnerable and thoughtful quality.

Missing Pieces. The most intriguing indie of the year from director-to-watch Kenton Bartlett explores longing and true love. Mark Boone Junior stars as David Lindale. Recovering from a head injury and the loss of his girlfriend Delia (Melora Walters), David’s obsession takes a disturbing turn. Richly imagined with deep compassion, this psychological drama also stars Taylor Engel and Daniel Hassel as a virtual couple. Stark and oddly hopeful, Missing Pieces listens to the ancient cry of the heart with contemporary verve. Jonathan Arturo’s artistic cinematography is notable.

Midnight in Paris. A charming, erudite frolic through Paris and the heart of an idealistic Hollywood screenwriter, Midnight in Paris lightheartedly explores past and present. Woody Allen’s newest film savors life and literature in the City of Light. It’s Allen at his searching, sarcastic best. Owen Wilson plays Gil Pender, a shambling, successful screenwriter who daydreams about fleeing Malibu, moving to Paris and finishing his novel. Rachel McAdams protests as his gold digger fiancée Inez.

 

Movies as art

The Artist. Even if you aren’t a fan of black and white films, The Artist likely will enchant you. Jean Dujardin smolders as prideful George Valentin, and Berenice Bejo shines as Peppy Miller, all spark and warmth. They are stars of the silent film era. George soon falls for Peppy, the newcomer he discovered. Acting then was pantomime and passion, a larger-than-life tribute to everyman and woman. Michel Hazanavicius writes and directs this film which swept the Academy Awards and Golden Globes. The Artist is mostly silent but filled with music, dance and superb acting. John Goodman and Uggie the dog also star.

Hugo. Martin Scorsese’s first children’s fantasy is a tribute to the cinema. Asa Butterfield stars as an orphan who lives above a Paris train station in the 1930s. A Station Inspector (Sacha Baron Cohen) chases the 12-year-old who lifts croissants and toys. Ben Kingsley is masterful as brooding, heartbroken Pappa Georges. Chloe Grace Moretz is engaging as Isabelle. Impeccable cinematography by Robert Richardson and fabulous sets from Dante Ferretti create an intricate world of wonder. You’ll see the Lumiere Brothers’ 1895 short The Arrival of a Train at La Ciotat Station and Georges Melies’ 1902 classic A Trip to the Moon. The making of these movies is reenacted. It’s a deep appreciation for early films and filmmakers.

Existential dread

Martha Marcy May Marlene. Elizabeth Olsen bursts into stardom in writer-director Sean Durkin’s astounding feature debut. Olsen’s dynamic, restrained performance is striking as Martha struggles to reclaim herself after escaping from a cult in upstate New York. Place and time blur as she relives her old life. Cult leader Patrick (John Hawkes) requires psychic surrender and bizarre acts. This indie psychological thriller disturbed and fascinated me as much as The Exorcist. Silkwood-like ending is deeply unsettling.

Melancholia. Lars von Trier casts a spell over you in this visual masterpiece about apocalypse and humanity. Kirsten Dunst stars as a Justine, a runaway bride. Plagued by depression, Justine confronts her gentle groom (Alexander Skarsgard), her man-hating mother (Charlotte Rampling) and her pound-of-flesh boss (Stellan Skarsgard). It’s a landscape of inner devastation made manifest. Melancholia joins a flurry of “end times” films. Unlike The Tree of Lifeit focuses on destruction. The writer-director examines our shortcomings and how we face death. This is a masterful, artistic interpretation of von Trier’s own battle with depression. You might see him as cynical. Then again, simply making a film is an act of faith.

Take Shelter is a fever dream of a thriller. It dwells on anxiety and hope, prophecy and mental illness. Jeff Nichols directs. Michael Shannon brilliantly plays sensitive everyman Curtis LaForche. Gangly, enigmatic and tortured, Curtis is plagued by hallucinations and nightmares. In an age of uncertainty, his dark night of the soul feels universal. Suspenseful from start to finish, Take Shelter portends the end. It sweeps you away with dread and faith. Jessica Chastain stars as Curtis’ wife Samantha. Tova Stewart is sweetly perceptive as their hearing impaired daughter Hannah.

Danger and redemption

The Debt. A team of young Israeli Massad agents captures the surgeon of Birkenau, but hides a dark secret. Helen Mirren and Jessica Chastain star in John Madden’s classy and exciting exploration of truth and honor. Non-stop suspense and an all-star cast distinguish this smart thriller. Romance and regret sharpen intrigue. Atonement is impossible in The Debt’s bloody conclusion, with a character who can’t forgive herself. Sam Worthington, Marton Csokas, Tom Wilkinson and Ciaran Hinds also star.

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. David Fincher’s classy remake of the 2009 Swedish-language thriller stars Rooney Mara as Lisbeth Salander, an abused heroine. Mikael Blomqvist (Daniel Craig) and Lisbeth track a serial killer implicated in the murder of Harriet Vanger 40 years ago. This is Mara’s breakout role as a fierce, determined computer hacker and survivor. Violent scenes, and a family of nefarious suspects, add grit. Jeff Cronenweth’s extraordinary cinematography highlights the play of good and evil. When the mystery is solved, a way to transcend violence is revealed.

Incendies. A daughter investigates her mother’s life and her own roots. Denis Villeneuve writes and directs this suspenseful family drama. Jeanne (Melissa Desoreaux-Poulin) travels to the Middle East to solve mysteries about her mother Nawal (Lubna Azabal, incredible). Politics, religion, identity and passion are explored. Best Movie Quote: “Death is never the end of the story. There are always details.”

Teachable moments

In a Better World. Danish filmmaker Susanne Bier explores violence, courage and responsibility in this Oscar and Golden Globe winner. Anton (Mikael Persbrandt) is a surgeon working far from home in a Kenyan field hospital. When his 10-year-old son Elias (Markus Rygaard) is bullied at school, he steps in as a peacemaker. Seeking his wife’s forgiveness after an affair, Anton lives in a state of love and surrender. His humility, gentleness and willingness to look like a fool are unique. Trine Dyrholm, Ulrich Thomsen and William Johnk Nielsen also star.

Win Win. Paul Giamatti is tremendous as Mike Flaherty, a storefront lawyer and sports coach who learns about honesty from a teen wrestling prodigy. Alex Shaffer plays Kyle, a deadpan runaway with a mom in drug rehab. Mike shows a great capacity to care for a kid in need even though he’s cash-strapped. Kyle demands a higher level of integrity from Mike. Shaffer was a high school champion wrestler in New Jersey. Amy Ryan, Bobby Cannavale and Burt Young also star. Director Tom McCarthy (The Station Agent; The Visitor) develops characters you will care about.

A new world

Happy. Roko Belic shows you how to find deep and lasting joy in this globe-trotting documentary. Belic travels to 14 countries to meet positive, optimistic individuals both rich and poor. He interviews “Dr. Happiness” Ed Diener, a scholar of happiness for over 35 years, and Richard Davidson, a neuroscientist at the University of Wisconsin-Madison who studies meditation’s effects. Sharing insights from psychology, neuroscience and multicultural wisdom, Happy finds that community and family are key. Once basic human needs are met, researchers say, $50K and $5 million look very much the same to our brains. Adversity can even kick start happiness, giving you the biochemical contrast needed to create new, better realities.

Everyone can Thrive, according to a leading edge documentary from visionary Foster Gamble. Steve Gagne directs. A wake-up call with a plan, Thrive casts world crisis as an evolutionary turning point. Daring to follow the money, Gamble analyzes underlying causes of scarcity and suffering worldwide. Free energy, abundant food and prosperity for all are within reach, experts say. The Thrive Movement website includes detailed information and ways to participate. Among those interviewed are Nassim Haramein, cosmologist and inventor, and Paul Hawken, environmentalist and entrepreneur. A masterpiece of impeccable research and heart, Thrive is among the most important documentaries ever made.

Miss Representation. Women speak out as the mainstream media trivializes and sexualizes women for profit. This disturbing eye-opener from Jennifer Siebel Newsom was featured at Sundance 2011. In-depth interviews and images from print, television, the internet, rock, rap and hip hop videos abound. Miss Representation is among the most important documentaries ever made. It reveals a rising tide of female leaders, and the tremendous integrity and wisdom that women offer society. Many scholars and activists speak, including Jennifer Pozner, Geena Davis and Rosario Dawson.

Compassion

Of Gods and Men. Trappist monks serving in the Algerian highlands face death in this stirring drama based on true events. As violence spreads, the government orders the monks to leave the country. Devoted to the impoverished locals, they debate whether to flee. Like Jesus, they live simple lives of prayer and service. Christian and Islamic people can coexist, they believe. Xavier Beauvois directs this winner of the Cannes Grand Jury Prize, and a Cesar Award for Best Film. Lambert Wilson and Michael Lonsdale star.

You might also enjoy: Top 12 Family Films of 2011; Top 10 Thrillers  of 2011.

Sharron Rose dances through change, mystery in 2012: The Odyssey

In 2012: The Odyssey, filmmaker Sharron Rose investigates humanity’s much-heralded 2012 evolutionary turning point.

Catastrophe or ecstasy?

Rose interviews visionary scholars about 2012 as she travels across the country.

New York Times best-selling author Gregg Braden says that the end date of a Mayan calendar on December 21, 2012 signals the sun’s alignment with the center of the Milky Way galaxy. This occurs once every 26,000 years.

Earth’s magnetism reaches its lowest point at that time, says Braden. The magnetic fields will then shift 180 degrees. The North Pole will become the South Pole, and vice versa.

Braden believes that we will not experience the physical devastation or “apocalypse” that many predict.

Creating change from within

A shift is happening now within each one of us, Braden asserts. “People are truly ready for a change, for an end to the suffering.” As we make “life-affirming or life-denying choices, we’ll either experience the rapture or the ascension.” He calls it a “beautiful yet painful unfolding.”

We can align with these new energies “by living lives consciously with intent, by being kind to one another, by acts of kindness.”

In the Golden Age everyone lives by love and heart-centered values like compassion, say spiritual teachers. This replaces the world’s Iron or Patriarchal age with its emphasis on power, money and status.

Divine Feminine perspective

As 2012: The Odyssey opens, Rose decides to stop watching television news. She spends more time in nature “to think about who we are, the way we relate to the earth, and to the people around us.”

Commercialism and technology contribute to a “cultural trance,” says Rose. By breaking free of this mindset we can remember how to live an “epic life.”

From a perspective of honoring and love, Rose reveals wisdom and reverence across cultures. This documentary may be the only feature film about 2012 directed by a woman.

A window of opportunity

Braden tells Rose that “We all play a vital role in where we’re going.” According to quantum physics, “If you change your life you’ll change your body, and if you change your body you’ll change your world.”

The world around us, Braden says, is “nothing more, nothing less than a mirror of what we have become collectively from within.”

This time is “a window of opportunity,” he says. “We’ll be more of ourselves than we ever have been before, without the magnetism of the Earth holding our perceptions and our beliefs and our preconceptions and bias in place.”

Iron Age turns to Golden Age

When you align with love and service, the darkest possibilities of millennial change don’t have to happen, says Braden. Right now “we’re re-writing the code so disaster doesn’t have to occur.”

Earth’s magnetic reversal has happened “only 14 times in the last 4.5 million years,” said Braden. “Magnetic fields also act as the glue in consciousness. As the glue gets weaker, we have greater opportunities to transcend beliefs.”

You can see the new age unfolding with increasing unrest as “things not in integrity collapse upon themselves,” he says.

Post-modern world lives

Psychologist and medical anthropologist Alberto Villoldo tells Rose that “We live in a post-modern world of sustainability, of deep ecology, of great reverence for the Earth.”

The modern world, he says, was founded on “greed, on ever-increasing economies and growth, on readily renewable resources.”

We align with Divinity

“It’s really an initiation of the Western world,” says author and teacher Jose Arguelles. “The real nature of the Divine is synchronicity. It’s a metaphor for us in our limited ego states coming back into connection with our Divine, eternal selves.”

Arguelles says we “must dissolve all the old identifications and attachments about who we have to be to be successful.” He predicts we’ll experience the Noosphere or “telepathic mind of the earth” between December 2012 and December 2013.

“The human experience is the main event,” author Terence McKenna says. “I believe what is in fact going on is that we are burning our bridges one by one, freeing the mind, empowering the imagination.”

Indigo children

Rose interviews a friend named Jewel who holds her baby Armand. Armand, who will be 7 years old in 2012, smiles, shouts and looks directly into the camera. He seems to underscore each point his mother makes.

An indigo child is “a powerful, intelligent, independent child who is believed to have an important spiritual impact” according to Dictionary.com. Indigo children challenge authority, Jewel says. They are system-busters.

Deep mysteries

“The global currency of our planet is four things: earth, air, fire and water,” says Rose. The “buy now, pay later” practice has threatened the sustainability of life on Earth.

Watching 2012: The Odyssey invites you into deep mystery. It is a mystical film that “changes” every time you watch it, giving you deeper insights and perspectives.

More adventures

Producer and author Jay Weidner speaks about alchemy, masons and the great Gothic cathedrals throughout Europe. Traveling Incan elders pray and share a message.

Rose visits the Georgia Guidestones (known as the “American Stonehenge,”) and reads the message left by the mysterious R.C. Christian in modern and ancient languages.

“Avoid petty laws and useless officials,” it says in part. “Balance personal rights with social duties.” “Maintain humanity under 500,000,000 in perpetual balance with nature.”

Both McKenna and Arguelles have died since this film was made. The teachings of McKenna, Arguelles and others interviewed are posted online.

The Odyssey continues

Rose is the author of The Path of the Priestess and a Fulbright Senior Research Scholar in World Mythology, Religion, and the Sacred Arts of Dance, Music and Theater.

Film represents “the dance of light” in our times, Rose says. (4 out of 5 stars)

If you like 2012: The Odyssey, you might enjoy: 2012: Time for Change; Thrive; Timewave 2013: The Future is Now.

 

2012: The Odyssey /   2007  /  NR  /  1 hour, 39 min

Cast Overview:  Jose Arguelles, Gregg Braden, John Major Jenkins, Terence McKenna, Sharron Rose, Geoff Stray, Moira Timms, Alberto Villoldo, Jay Weidner

Director: Sharron Rose

Genres:  Documentary